Should I, or should I not "threaten" legal action before taking legal action?
I'm planning on filing a restraining/kick-out order if Todd doesn't get his butt in gear and find a place to so his kids can return to their home...
- Should I be specific in advance?
- Should I let him know that if it's "too hard"for him to live somewhere else so the kids can be in the house, his inaction will actually force me to file for divorce sooner rather than later?
- Or is it better not to alert him to the action I plan on taking and give him the chance to be premeditatively nasty?
All you silent lurkers, please speak up this time. And give me the "why" behind your answer. There is wisdom to be gleaned from a multitude of counselors.
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